Kristy Underwood joins the Family Law team at stevensdrake. Her arrival allows us to offer a new, compassionate approach to divorce and separation through the Resolution Together model, where she serves as a neutral lawyer to both parties. In our latest article, Kristy explains what the Resolution Together model is and how it can help couples to navigate separation and divorce in a non-adversarial way.

Resolution Together:  a non-adversarial solution for divorce and separation

Resolution Together offers a unique way for couples navigating separation or divorce to work together with a single, neutral lawyer, rather than hiring separate lawyers. This non-adversarial process is designed to reduce the emotional and financial toll of divorce by focusing on co-operation and clear communication. For couples willing to manage their separation with shared legal guidance, Resolution Together promotes a constructive and cost-effective path to resolving issues related to finances, property, and child arrangements.

How does the  Resolution Together approach work?

Resolution Together involves both clients meeting jointly with a lawyer who provides legal guidance to help them make mutual decisions. The lawyer’s role is neutral, meaning they do not advocate for one client over the other but rather provide balanced information to facilitate informed decision-making. By keeping the focus on collaboration, couples can avoid the contentious environment that often arises in traditional divorces, benefiting both partners and, in many cases, any children involved.

What are the advantages of Resolution Together?

Cost Savings: With one lawyer rather than two, couples can significantly reduce their legal expenses. This streamlined process can  minimise costs by reducing court involvement and encouraging mutually agreed solutions, ultimately leaving more financial resources for the future.

Reduced Emotional Stress: Divorce and separation are emotionally taxing. Using a single, neutral lawyer allows couples to work together without feeling the strain of opposing legal teams. By focusing on common goals, couples can make decisions that benefit everyone involved, especially children.

Efficiency and Convenience: In many cases, using a neutral lawyer results in faster resolutions. Joint communication through one lawyer simplifies the process and can eliminate delays caused by coordinating between two lawyers, making it easier for both parties to move forward.

Option to Continue with separate representation: If Resolution Together is not successful for any reason, the lawyer can continue to act for one of the parties if that’s appropriate. This ensures continuity, meaning that clients don’t have to restart the process with a new lawyer if amore traditional approach becomes necessary.

FAQs

Is Resolution Together suitable for all couples?

Resolution Together works best for couples who can communicate openly and who wish to make decisions together. Before starting, the lawyer meets individually with each partner to assess whether there are any issues—such as power imbalances or past abuse—that might hinder a collaborative approach.

What if we encounter disagreements?

If significant disagreements arise, the lawyer may suggest mediation as a way to resolve specific issues. If the collaborative process no longer seems viable, by agreement one of the clients can retain the lawyer to act on their behalf, while the other partner seeks separate representation. This flexibility keeps the process efficient, even if it transitions to a more traditional format.  It is open to the clients throughout the process to seek advice from an independent lawyer.

The role of mediation

Mediation can be beneficial when issues arise that need extra support to resolve, such as complex financial or parenting arrangements. Mediators are trained professionals who work impartially with both parties to reach decisions that feel fair and are in the best interests of everyone involved. Mediation also supports the Resolution Together ethos by reducing costs and keeping disputes out of court, further streamlining the path to a final settlement.

Initial meeting and cost

For couples interested in exploring Resolution Together, an initial meeting is held with each partner individually to determine if this approach suits their needs and circumstances. This introductory session, priced at a very reasonable £100 + VAT, allows the lawyer to evaluate the dynamics of the relationship and the complexity of the issues involved. It’s a valuable opportunity for clients to ask questions and gain an understanding of how Resolution Together could benefit them.

Process overview

Individual Initial Meetings: Each partner meets separately with the lawyer, who assesses suitability for a collaborative approach and addresses any concerns.

Joint Meetings: Once it’s clear that both partners are comfortable with the process, joint meetings take place. These sessions are designed to help the couple navigate key decisions, with the lawyer providing balanced legal advice.

Optional Mediation: If needed, a mediator can be brought into help resolve specific issues.

Final Agreement: With the lawyer’s support, the couple finalises their agreement, reducing the likelihood of needing court intervention.

Separation and divorce are challenging, and any approach that reduces conflict and cost can only benefit those involved. Resolution Together offers a pathway for couples to work together through their legal separation, with options for a smooth transition if traditional representation becomes necessary. If you’re considering Resolution Together, an initial meeting can provide insight into whether this approach fits your needs, helping you make informed decisions for your future.

For more information on Resolution Together and to book your initial meeting, please contact us to see how we can support your journey through separation collaboratively and effectively.

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